Call for (Your Awesome) Submissions!
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As I mentioned a couple of weeks ago, I’ve been planning on announcing a new editorial series that puts your awesomeness in the spotlight. The new series is called Lessons Learned and in it, I want to feature your stories about lessons learned from everyday experiences, whether it’s something unexpected or challenging you have learned at work or home.

Check out submission details for the Lessons Learned series here. I'm so looking forward to reading your stories!

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Best of March 2014
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I know I probably say this every month but I can't believe it's the end of the month. In fact, it's the end of the first quarter of the year, which seems even more major! Anyway, I'm doing a happy dance because taxes are done (thank you thank you thank, Jon) and spring weather is coming! Catch up on some seriously awesome back reading with this Best of March 2014 wrap:

At Home

- How to get kids to do chores

- 8 tips for unplugging your family

- Easy and awesome homemade granola

- How to attract butterfiles to your garden

Books

- Picture books with strong female lead characters

- 14 awesome craft/DIY books

Cool Finds

- La Fresh Eco-Beauty goodies

Life Lessons

- Lessons from my three-year-old

Travel (Around Town & Elsewhere)

- Local Gems: Back Bay, Boston

- Local Gems: Lexington

- Traveling with Kids: 12 ways to make your life easier at Disney

Hey Internet, Keep Being Awesome

- Volume 1

- Volume 2

- Volume 3

- Volume 4

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Weekly Blueprint
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Happy Monday everyone, I hope you had a great weekend! I was reminded of a couple of things: how important date night is (mega thanks to my sister Steph for babysitting and yay for Bistro 5!) and how good it is to gear up and get with the kids even when the weather is crappy. Meanwhile, if you're looking for something fun to do this week, enjoy this roundup via the Weekly Blueprint:

April 1 - 4: Celebrate nanoscale science and engineering at NanoDays. (Acton)

April 1: ASD-friendly afternoon at the museum with special guest. (Acton)

April 1: Tricks animals play. (Belmont)

April 1: Head outside for lunch today and hit up the first day of food trucks on the Green Way. (Boston)

April 2: Free admission to deCordova Sculpture Park and Museum. (Lincoln)

April 2 + 3: Mom’s night out at The Best of the MOMologues. (Arlington)

April 3 - 6: Turtle’s New Home puppet show. (Brookline)

April 3: Help your budding scientist learn the right tools for the job. (Worcester)

April 4: Free admission to The Discovery Museums. (Acton)

April 4: Baa-baa baby lambs at Drumlin Farm. (Lincoln)

April 4 - 6: Craft Boston, featuring over 90 of Bostons best artisans. (Boston)

April 4: Enought of the chilly weather, it’s time for spring! (Cambridge)

April 4: Late night at the museum. (Easton)

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Groupon Will Just Not Clean My House
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I really want someone to come clean my house for me. I don't want to pay $100 for it. This is what leads me down the Groupon road, over and over, except this is what happens every single time.

1) Get email from Groupon that includes some half-price home cleaning service.

2) Buy Groupon. Think giddily about clean house with no effort on my part. Print Groupon out and stroke it lovingly.

3) Schedule cleaning. Always at least three months out, because whatever. Put appointment on calendar.

4) Day of cleaning arrives. So excited. 

5) Time of cleaning service's arrival arrives. Peer out window hopefully.

6) Hours go by. No cleaning service. Call cleaning service. Email cleaning service.

7) Days go by. No call from cleaning service. No email from cleaning service.

8) Email Groupon and ask for refund.

Three times this has happened. THREE TIMES. The only thing that I can determine is that cleaning services do not think through what will happen if they suddenly get a whole bunch of new customers. I can't imagine just ignoring an assignment for my work without providing any explanation at all. I would not be upset if someone had called me a day ahead and asked to reschedule. But just to have nobody show up at all is beyond bizarre and irritating. 

One would think that I would stop eagerly buying the Groupons that turn into Groupon credits when once again a completely new and different cleaning service just fails to show.

I have to get this through my thick skull, so I am writing about it so I will have this post to look back on when once again I am tempted to think I can get someone to clean even part of my house for $40.

It ain't happening, is it? No, Rita, it is not. You have to clean your own house. The end.

Hey Internet, Keep Being Awesome
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Happy Saturday everyone, I hope you're enjoying a great weekend! I'm feeling especially bright spirited; in addition to enjoying a lovely run and nature walk with the girls today, as of this afternoon, I'm finally free of the albatross that was squaring up my 2013 finances for taxes. YAHOO! Have a wonderful rest of the weekend and enjoy this roundup of Hey Internet, Keep Being Awesome:

- A fundraiser for Boston firefighters Ed Walsh and Mike Kennedy.

- Kevin Bacon, you the man.

- 16 tips for drama free parenting.

- This is why I’m growing my hair out: polished bun how-to.

- My curated collection of ottomans. Which should I get for my living room?

- Children around the world with their most prized possessions.

- If you think you may lose your mind reading one more long-form parenting essay.

- Weekend project: blood orange margaritas!

- Tribute to a mother’s strength.

- The happiest and healthiest cities in America (fist bump #17, #23).

- Asha and I are beyond honored to be nominated for two Iris Awards (Game Changer for Minimalist Parenting + Philanthropic Work for our #HelpWomenAtRisk fundraiser)!

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My Favorite Comment Ever
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In the past week or so I've written on BlogHer about Gwyneth Paltrow telling us it's harder to be a movie-star parent than an office-worker parent, things you'll miss while spring cleaning, why I really didn't like The Muppets Most Wanted, whether I'd save Beloved or the little angel if they were both hanging off a cliff, and what Fred Phelps saw when he died -- but by far the best comment I got this week was on a post I wrote about struggling with Beloved's travel.

The post was shared on BlogHer's Facebook page and the comment appeared there and got pulled over to BlogHer via Livefyre. When I went to read it, I realized the commenter probably didn't realize I've worked full-time for BlogHer since 2009. But still. Hilarious. Scroll down

Weekend Roundup
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Happy Friday everyone, I hope you're enjoying a great week! I must say that after three very full weekends (and somewhat crazy weeks too), I'm thrilled that this coming weekend is blissfully open! If you've got some free windows and are looking to get out and about with your kids, enjoy this roundup of 16 events, lovingly curated for your consideration. Have a great one!

1. Make oobleck, memory metal and more all while celebrating NanoDays. (Acton)

2. Live storytelling: tales of Japan with Motoko. (Boston)

3. NOVA Making Stuff workshop: making stuff cooler. (Boston)

4. Science and conservation day at the zoo. (Boston)

5. Links, lines and knots. (Boston)

6. Wayne Potash and the Music Fun Band. (Brookline)

7. The Magic Soup and Other Stories. (Brookline)

8. The French Embassy presents Ernest & Celestine. (Cambridge)

9. Exploring owls. (Cambridge)

10. The great salamander migration. (East Falmouth)

11. DIY bat caves...err houses. (Lenox)

12. Woolapalooza. (Lincoln)

13. Opening day for the hands-on Maker Lounge. (Salem)

14. Story and craft time with author of Breathe. (Wellesley)

15. Ben Rudnick and Friends. (Winchester)

16. Join in medieval revelry to celebrate the opening of Knights! (Worcester)

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Picture Books with Strong Female Lead Characters
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Today, Lindsey shares some great book recommendations:

My daughter is 11, and in her independent reading has found a rich vein of chapter books with strong female protagonists (see my earlier post on books for strong and smart girls). Island of the Blue Dolphins, A Wrinkle in Time, Harriet the Spy, and even The Hunger Games series: all of these share gutsy, brave, intelligent girl narrators.

We have been somewhat less successful finding strong female lead characters in picture books, which we still read. Perhaps because I love the category so fiercely, my children do too, and many nights we curl up on the couch to read a new find or an old favorite. I am always looking for books that feature passionate and interesting female characters, to offer a counterpoint to the many picture books written about fascinating, strong-willed, and bright boys. Personally, I care about presenting both my daughter and my son with a balance of girl and boy role models; I think it's equally important for both of them. Here are some of my favorites:

1 + 2. The Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munsch and Princess Smartypants by Babette Cole are two books that have long been in our rotation, and which I've given to both of my goddaughters. Each is an explicit attempt to re-write the common princess narrative, which can often emphasize helplessness and a lack of autonomy.

3. Grace for President by Kelly DiPucchio and LeUyen Pham makes me cry every single time I read it. Elementary school-aged Grace discovers that there has never been a female president and after getting over her shock, decides to run for president in their school's mock election. Her male competitor assumes that all the boys will give their electoral votes to him (as an aside, this book offers a terrific introduction to the electoral college). The close election comes down to Sam, who represents Wyoming's 3 electoral votes. I'll let you read it to find out the ending, but suffice it to say I adore this book.

4. Rosie Revere, Engineer by Andrea Beaty and David Roberts was under the tree for my 9-year-old son this year, and we all have enjoyed reading it several times. Rosie, who dreams of being an engineer, remembers when her audacious imagination was squashed by the teasing of an uncle. Then she recalls her great-great aunt Rose who built airplanes (from the looks of the illustration, in WW2) and sets her mind to creating a machine that will make Rose's dream, to fly, come true. The book reminds us all that failure is a necessary part of success, and that we can't possibly make our dreams come true if we don't even try.  Rosie's heroism has nothing to do with her gender, but instead for her grit and gumption, her dedication and hard work.

5. The Princess Knight by Cornelia Funke and Kerstin Meyer is about a young princess, raised by her father and brothers after her mother's death. She is told by her family that she needs to get married, but what she wants to do is joust and compete like her older brothers. Finally, she disguises herself as a boy to enter a tournament. When she wins, she is able to free herself from the traditional "girl" path and also to demonstrate how strong and capable girls can be.

Do you have favorite picture books that depict strong female leads? Feel free to share in the comments below!

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Local Gems: Back Bay, Boston
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I'm thrilled to share another Local Gems post today (be sure to check out the Medford, Beacon Hill, and Lexington features)! Today's Back Bay recommendations come from my friend Laura Tomasetti of 360PR. Laura's is one of the first agencies I interfaced with when I started blogging and she is both a delightful person socially and a true visionary in her field. (I also completely credit Laura for getting me onto Twitter!) Laura has a delightful daughter and is a longtime Back Bay dweller; thanks for sharing these recs, Laura!

Following the fun features on Medford and Beacon Hill, today’s Local Gems spotlight is on Lexington, a pretty town 11 miles northwest of Boston. I’m grateful to my brilliant friend and colleague Morra Aarons-Mele (mom of two adorable sons and a digital tour de force via Women Online and The Mission List), who shares her Lexington faves today. Thanks, Morra! - See more at: http://www.bostonmamas.com/blog/2014/3/5/local-gems-lexington.html#sthash.rSyhL4US.dpuf

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I love city living, even more so as a mom. Boston makes it easy, with so many fun places to stroll into, with or without the kids. Here’s a list of some of my favorites in Back Bay -- some true independents, some small New England chains worthy of your support.

1. L.A. Burdick. If the kids are in tow, or you’re just trying to satisfy a craving for chocolate, the hot chocolate at L.A. Burdick – offered in white, milk and dark varieties – is divine. Since my favorite Back Bay coffee spot recently closed (L’Aroma, still open in West Newton), I’ve been enjoying the café latte and tea options at L.A. Burdick, too.

2. Esplanade Play Space. City playgrounds have gotten a whole lot better than when we were kids. The Esplanade Play Space is really quite extraordinary, offering climbing, ziplining, and other activities for all ages. My 9-year-old hasn’t outgrown it yet! 

3. Clarendon Street Playground. For younger kids, Clarendon Street Playground is “just right” and a nice, shady respite perfect for summer days.

4. Kitchenwares. Kitchenwares packs more onto its shelves than I ever could – and I’m glad, because I always find what I’m looking for there. My latest purchase was a folding griddle to make pancakes and…bacon! Blackstones of Beacon Hill proprietor Jennifer Hill opened Kitchenwares with her culinary-talented husband and the duo really know their kitchen wares!

5. Small Pleasures. Small Pleasures is a boutique jeweler where you’ll want to spend some serious browsing time, especially if you have a big birthday or anniversary coming up! Though the space is small, they pack a lot in and I love their taste (which leans art deco and antique) and their personal service.

 6. Lauren’s Nails. Ready for your spring manicure? Lauren's Nails on Newbury Street is your best bet, hands down. For $40 (cash, there’s a slight up-charge if you use a credit card but it’s still well worth it), you’ll get a mani, pedi, and 10-minute massage. And the technicians are all highly skilled. If you want Lauren herself, take the reasonable walk from Back Bay over to Beacon Hill and you’ll find the original Lauren’s Nails about mid-way down Charles Street.

7. Copley Farmer’s Market. Grab fresh produce, cheeses, breads and seafood to go at the Copley Farmer's Market, on Tuesday’s and Friday’s right in front of Trinity Church.

8. b. good. We love New England family-friendly burger joint b. good, which uses locally sourced beef, poultry, and produce, and serves a mighty-tasty shake and fries to go with that juicy burger (vegetarian option available).

9. Casa Romero. For a grown-up night out on the romantic side, make a reservation at Casa Romero for the most authentic Mexican food in the city served in charming stucco and tiled rooms, with a patio for the nice weather. The sangria is tops!

10. Bistro du Midi. For authentic French bistro fare, overlooking the Public Garden to boot, Bistro du Midi is a real treat. They have a lighter fare menu available downstairs, where the talented bartenders will muddle-up a cocktail with fresh basil for you. C’est magnifique!

11. Finale. For dessert, there’s no place like Finale. With the overhead mirror, you can watch the pastry chefs burnish the crème brulee just before you dive in. They have more than a dozen decadent desserts to choose from, coffee drinks, port, and a light dinner menu that’s just enough to leave room for dessert.

12. Sweet Cupcakes. For your cupcake fix, head to Sweet Cupcakes. Everyone raves about Georgetown Cupcakes on Newbury (and they’re pretty amazing), but Sweet is just as amazing -- and maybe more so, since it’s a Boston original!

Do you have other Back Bay gems you love? Feel free to share in the comments below! And if you want to pen a Local Gems guest post, contact Christine at editor@bostonmamas.com to check on availability.

Image credits: all images sourced from linked business websites and Facebook pages. Thumbnail image also by Sweet Cupcakes.

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