February Vacation Mega Roundup!
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So, did February vacation sneak up on anyone else? If you're still looking to fill your week, fear not, I've got a great February vacation mega roundup for you! And if you're looking for fun at home, enjoy this awesome craft for all ages, 9 cool science experiments using everyday household ingredients, these Black History Month learning resources, and this apple crumble pie recipe.

BEDFORD: Always wanted to create your own scrimshaw? Now’s your chance.

BOSTON: Lots of newly renovated exhibits and new sea life at the New England Aquarium.

BOSTON: Travel to the tropics without evening hopping on a plane.

BOSTON: Everything you wanted to know about habitats, ecosystems and biomes.

BOSTON: Time to celebrate with Disney on Ice.

BOSTON: Science in the park.

BOSTON: Painting, juggling, magic and more...not to mention half price cookies

BOSTON: It’s engineering week at the Children’s Museum.

BOSTON: A special night out at the Hotel Commonwealth.

BOSTON: A contemporary art sampler.

BOSTON: Celebrate President’s Day week with a real president.

BOSTON: Artists in the making.

BROOKLINE: An Arabian Adventure.

CAMBRIDGE: Skate to support those with ALS.

CONCORD: A visit with Abraham Lincoln.

CONCORD: Teddy Bear tea in the historic Brooke Hall.

EASTON: The case of the Fantastic Forgery art museum heist.

KINGSTON: More than just shopping at the Independence Mall.

LINCOLN: A week of art at deCordova.

LOWELL: It’s all about the kids this week.

NEWTON: Put those kids to work and have them cook dinner for a change.

PLYMOUTH: Become a 17th century apprentice.

PRINCETON: It’s the perfect week to learn to ski.

SALEM: Jam-packed week at the Peabody Essex Musuem.

STURBRIDGE: Old Sturbridge Village has more that 50 things to do this week.

WALTHAM: Snowshoe your way to a book sale.

WATERTOWN: Vacation workshops at the Arsenal Center for the Arts.

WENHAM: How they did February break in the 17th century.

WORCESTER: Around the world in 4 days.

WORCESTER: For the tinkerers in the group.

VARIOUS LOCATIONS: Mass Audubon can keep you busy all week.

Image credit: Faneuil Hall Marketplace

Friday Find: Parachute Cord Crafts
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Today's Friday Find is actually one of Jon's discoveries and it's a great find for any age and gender: parachute cord crafts. Jon bought Laurel a bracelet kit for Christmas and they had so much experimenting with knot and braid techniques that we've purchased separate cord + accessories (Laurel wears her bracelets constantly and has a whistle on one of them). You can make everything from compass bracelets to dog collars; I'm thinking about picking up this paracord project book for Laurel and Jon soon!

Image credits: images via Amazon product links above

Weekend Roundup
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Happy Friday and Happy Valentine's Day everyone! I apologize that I'm a little late posting; I'm actually posting from the air en route to a quick turn and burn work trip to New York City. Anyway, I hope you have a great weekend; enjoy this roundup of events (and be sure to try any or all of these 9 cool science experiments using everyday household ingredients this weekend!):

1. Boston’s hottest magician. (Arlington)

2. Learn about  the diggers and builders of the animal world. (Boston)

3. Visiting artist workshop with Anthony Palocci Jr. (Boston)

4. Kid-friendly, bilingual rock with Mister G. (Brookline)

5. The final weekend of the Great Red Ball Rescue. (Brookline)

6. It’s time to relax with Room to Read. (Concord)

7. Sumingashi, the ancient art of paper marbling. (Concord)

8. Dens, nests, lodges and mounds, check out that critter carpentry. (Mattapan)

9. Build a backyard birdhouse. (Norfolk)

10. A snowboard slopestyle competition just like the Olympics. (Princeton)

11. Story trails with Martha the dog. (Salem)

Image credit: Boston Children’s Museum

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What We Share Online
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Today I read a really interesting post on BlogHer by a blogger with spina bifida regarding what she shares or doesn't share on Facebook. She said people often tell her they wish they had her life because of what she shares on Facebook, but there is so much she doesn't share about her disease. She writes:

Because, God forbid I should choose the joyful family Christmas dinner in Puerto Rico as the venue for disclosing how I’ve totally slacked off on my neurosurgery stuff and am now desperate to schedule a follow-up with my neuro to find out the results of my MRI, which I had done before the holidays.

That got me to thinking about what I share, but more importantly, what I see other people sharing. This morning I got onto Facebook to check notifications. I almost never read my feed, because I feel like if I respond to one person's post that doesn't specifically name-check me then someone else might think I should respond to theirs. Of course, this is extremely self-centered of me to think people will care what I do or don't "like," but I don't think I would know when to stop. I don't *want* to spend hours on Facebook every day, and I don't want to worry about whether or not someone liked my profile picture change or what have you. In that way, Facebook is too transparent for me. I don't know who reads my blog from day to day, and I really prefer it that way. I don't want to wonder if I offended you or you've just been trapped under three feet of snow trying to get through the day for the last week.

Today, though, I read my feed for about five minutes and immediately was happy and sad for people (some of whom I barely know) and felt like I should say all the right things and click the appropriate emotion buttons and I got totally overwhelmed and just shut down the tab, pretending like I'd never opened it.

We share so much information now, and it's overwhelming to me. I've been thinking about why for several years now, and it's finally occurred to me it's because I get the news when I don't have time to process it. If I go to lunch with a friend and she tells me her dog died or she's been diagnosed with cancer or she's just in a slump, I'm already there, focused on her, with time set aside already in my schedule to talk. When I hear news, good or bad, I really want to respond immediately. I'm an extrovert and I really love being with other people. So when there is so much in the feed that there is no way on earth I'll ever be able to keep up, it actually makes my stomach hurt. Thus I avoid Facebook, only checking in every day or every other day to see if there's anything specifically directed at me, because I also have a fear of ignoring someone without giving them a reason why. Even then I find I've ignored invites to events or what have you because Facebook is the only place they were announced.

But that's not all of it. Not really.

I was immediately relieved when I closed the tab, because I noticed that in the five minutes I'd been reading, not only did I feel sad and happy, I felt jealous of some of the announcements and photos I saw, even though I know damn well we all edit the selves we present in social media and because of it, the standards for what our houses should look like or the presentation of our home-cooked dinners or the outfit we wear to Target go up and up and up. The standards I once thought applied only to the landed gentry suddenly feel like they're applying to me sitting here in my home office in suburban Kansas City with plans only to buy my daughter a new pair of tennies and maybe hit a family-friendly pizza place on the way home tonight. I used to feel really proud of myself for baking anything and this morning I felt guilty for making my daughter a Valentine's Day breakfast of chocolate chip muffins because it was a mix and I didn't put them on a cute plate and the muffin liner thingies had Christmas trees on them.

My fucking muffin liners aren't even good enough.

I blame Facebook and Pinterest. I really do. The television was always there. The catalogs were always there. The magazines, same thing. I didn't know if my friends were watching or reading those things, and if they dressed better than I do or cooked beautiful meals, I chalked it up to personal taste or income levels or interest differences. Now because I see everybody doing those things, I feel like it's the new norm.

Are seasonal wreaths really the new norm? Why does everyone have such cute boots? When did I get left behind?

Is it okay I don't care about a lot of those things? I mean, I care a little, but well, I still go to the grocery store in yoga pants and a hat All.The.Time. My cooking has improved dramatically since we started eating in as much as possible, but I'm really proud of myself just for using fresh vegetables instead of canned or frozen or God forbid insta-mealed. It doesn't have to look pretty, too.

I reject you, higher standards! I want to feel good about my not-matching wood and my non-mermaid hair. I want to feel like what I surround myself with can be just functional sometimes and doesn't have to also be gorgeous and flawlessly maintained. I have no servants who live downstairs, and I'm TIRED. 

I want to be good enough.

Let's Meet in Cambridge!
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We could all use some bright and cheerful in this dead of winter, so I'm thrilled to invite you to an event I'm hosting with Marimekko Cambridge on Saturday, February 22, 1-3pm at the 350 Huron Avenue store. You and your kids can check out the spring/summer 2014 collection, enjoy face painting, nosh on cupcakes, and mingle with other awesome families. Laurel and I just visited the store yesterday and it's like an instant dose of happy juice!

I'll be modeling Marimekko, and I'm thrilled that my blogging friends Audrey and her son Henry, Casey and her daughter Riley, Sharon and her daughter Sienna, and Sharon and her son Bennett have agreed to join in the strutting fun. I hope to see you there; I always love meeting the amazing folks in this community in real life!

What to Do
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I saw one of those reality shows recently that my daughter likes. What Would You Do? And it was a show where a couple fought publicly with a young girl who had supposedly promised a baby that she was now deciding to keep.

They showed the scenario many different ways, with the pregnant girl left, or the adoptive husband or the adoptive wife. In one scenario, the adoptive wife was left, and two women came out of nowhere in this restaurant and prayed with her, an actress who wasn't actually looking for a baby in real life at all. The actress was still moved to tears because the strangers prayed that she might be blessed with a baby, a baby she hadn't ever really considered in her life at all.

I have people in my life right now who are having a hard time with health. People for whom I just wish peace, for whom I wish safe passage. I keep thinking about those two complete strangers who came out of nowhere and prayed. I am told when my grandfather lay dying on the side of the road, a woman appeared and held his hand and told him it was okay to go. A stranger.

I thank you, stranger. That I might be so blessed.

There are two individuals on opposite sides of my family now who are having a hard time. I wish them a safe and painless passage.

Tonight my daughter and I watched a show in which a family had to decide to put their dog down, as we have put so many cats down. And my daughter asked how that would go, and I explained euthanasia.

If only my own passing could be so easy, I said.

She nodded from her nest on the couch. Perhaps I shouldn't bring up such subjects with a nine-year-old, but she has experienced the loss of many pets now, and truly, I think we dread death more than we should. Life is a circle. It should be, and it is. I think there is more than this that we see right now. I don't know what it is, but I believe there is more. I believe that it can be beautiful.

I remember a line from one of my favorite movies, LADY JANE, in which she says: The soul takes flight to the world that is invisible. At there arriving, she is assured of bliss, and forever dwells in paradise.

I believe that. That we are assured of bliss.

I wish bliss for my family.

I wish bliss for my family.

Because I do believe that the soul takes flight, and there arriving, we are assured of bliss. I wish that for all of you.

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9 Cool Science Experiments Using Everyday Household Ingredients
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So, as much as I try to march my kids outdoors for fresh air, sometimes the weather dictates that we need to stay inside. And if it's a long cold stretch, all the books have been read, all the games have been played, and we don't need a fourth batch of cookies. Subsequently, today I'm thrilled to share another sponsored editorial collaboration with Bright Horizons (be sure to read the first, on 7 things to know about everyday play...it is totally awesome). All focused on indoor fun, the importance of play, and SCIENCE!

For this post, I decided to challenge (read: attempt to stump) Lindsay McKenzie (director of soon-to-open Bright Horizons at Brookline) on science activities using everyday household products. Because let's face it, on the millionth snow day, it's all about use-what-you-have mode! Let's see how she does!

Lindsey, let's start with SHAVING CREAM. We know it's great for man faces, but what’s a cool science activity you can create with shaving cream?

Well, first off I always start science experiments by reminding children that they should never eat or drink anything that they are using in the experiment. Shaving cream might look tasty but it can make you sick if you ingest it.

(Experiment 1) Shaving cream can be used for many different experiments. If you’re working with older children you can use it to represent clouds and with a little food coloring you can make rain. All you need is shaving cream, blue food coloring, cold water, and a clear cup. Fill the cup ¾ with water, spray some shaving cream on top, then squeeze a few drops of food coloring on top of the shaving cream. The shaving cream acts like a cloud while the food coloring becomes the rain. The “cloud” becomes so heavy with “rain” that eventually the rain passes through the cloud and falls to earth.

(Experiment 2) For younger children it’s a great way to experiment with texture. Have you ever made a family of snow people in your kitchen? Add a little baby powder to the shaving cream and you’ll create a fluffy moldable snow colored substance to play with all year round.

OK, how about CORNSTARCH? It's helpful as a thickening agent when cooking and awesome to make chalk paint during the warm weather. What science experiments can you do with cornstarch?

(Experiment 3) The go-to science exploration with cornstarch is oobleck. Most substances change states when we change the temperature, like freezing water into ice or boiling it into steam. But cornstarch and water change with pressure. Oobleck and other pressure-dependent substances, like silly putty or quicksand, are not liquids such as water or oil. They are known as non-Newtonian fluids. This name actually came from a Dr. Seuss book called Bartholomew and the Oobleck. Add a little water to corn starch and you create a fun goopy substance that will give you infant through kindergartner hours of sensory fun.

How about BAKING SODA? Essential for making baked goods rise, and also one of my favorite natural cleaning ingredients. What's a good use for baking soda science project-wise?

(Experiment 4) We all remember the baking soda volcano but did you know you can use baking soda to make invisible ink? Mix about 1/4 cup of baking soda and 1/4 cup of water. Then use a Q-tip or paint brush to write on a piece of paper. Let it dry. To read the secret message, paint grape juice concentrate across the paper with a brush or a sponge. The acid in the grape juice reacts with the baking soda and like magic your secret message appears!

(Experiment 5) Want to make spaghetti dance? All you need is uncooked spaghetti, 1 cup of water, 2 teaspoons of baking soda, 5 teaspoons of vinegar, and a tall clear glass. Put water and baking soda in the glass. Stir until the baking soda is dissolved. Break spaghetti into 1-inch pieces. Put about 6 pieces in the glass. They will sink to the bottom. Add vinegar to the mixture in the glass. Add more vinegar as the action starts to slow down.

Let's move on to ALKA-SELTZER; classically useful for heartburn and indigestion. Assuming you don't need it for heartburn or indigestion, what's a good science-y use for Alka-Seltzer?

(Experiment 6) My favorite Alka-Seltzer experiment is the film tube rocket. What happens when you have a build-up of carbon dioxide? Kids love to talk about gas. Seal the end of the cardboard tube with several pieces of duct tape or use a plastic tube with one end sealed. Divide the Alka-Seltzer into four equal pieces. Fill the film canister one-half full with water (if you can find a film canister today). Place one of the pieces of Alka-Seltzer tablet in the film canister and quickly snap the lid on the container. Turn the film canister upside down and slide it (lid first) into the tube. Point the open end of the tube AWAY from yourself and others and wait for the pop. Instead of the lid flying off, the bottom of the film canister shoots out of the tube and flies across the room.

(Experiment 7) The lava lamp is a fun one too. Oil and water do not mix. If you try to shake up the bottle filled with both the oil just breaks up into small drops. The water sinks to the bottom and the oil floats to the top. Oil floats on the surface because water is heavier than oil. The Alka-Seltzer tablet reacts with the water to make carbon dioxide. These bubbles attach themselves to the water and cause them to float to the surface. When the bubbles pop, the color sinks back to the bottom of the bottle.

And my last one: SALT. Enhances the taste of food. I gift a magical version every holiday season. What are some good experiments using salt?

(Experiment 8) You can make lava lamps with salt too!  Fill the glass about 3/4 full of water. Add about 5 drops of food coloring. Slowly pour the vegetable oil into the glass. Sprinkle the salt on top of the oil. Watch blobs of lava move up and down in your glass!

(Experiment 9) Density can be a difficult scientific property to grasp, that's why we like making it colorful, fun, and (most importantly) simple! The Salt Water Density Straw is the epitome of kitchen science! You need six cups. In each of the six cups, add one of six different amounts of salt: 1 tsp, 2 tsp, 3 tsp, 4 tsp, 5 tsp, 6 tsp. With the salt in each cup, add 9 oz of warm water. Stir the solution until all of the salt has dissolved. Using food coloring, make the water in each cup a different color. Now you need a clear drinking straw. With your thumb off of the straw's opening, dunk the opposite end of the straw into the "1 tsp" solution. "Cap" the straw with your thumb and remove the straw from the solution. Now that you have the first solution in the straw, dip the end of the straw into the "2 tsp" solution. Dip the straw further, this time, than you did into the first solution. Once you've dipped the straw, remove your thumb and quickly replace it. Remove the straw and you should have the first and second solutions in a stack inside of the straw. Continue the dipping process until you have all six solutions inside of the straw. It's a density column of salt water! Remove your thumb and start all over again!

Well, I totally didn't stump Lindsey but that's OK because now you have 9 awesome science experiments to try with your kids! Enjoy!

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Bright Horizons is a leading provider of high-quality early education and preschool programs. Their Brookline location (138 Harvard Street) will open March 2014 and offer infant - kindergarten prep programs. Want to learn more? Bright Horizons will host hard hat tours: Friday, February 21, 2014 (10am - 5pm), Thursday, February 27, 2014 (12-7pm), Tuesday, March 4, 2014 (12-7pm). No RSVP needed; all are invited.

Image credits: Bright Horizons; compilation graphic by Christine Koh

I Think I Heard Birds

I've heard rumors some songbirds are returning, but I hadn't heard any of them until yesterday. It's such a bad idea for them to come back in February when there's a polar vortex going on, but it's funny how you don't realize how silent winter is until a gaggle of loudmouth birds set up shop in the pine tree outside your window. And your little black cat sees them and races around the house like he just shot up crack. And you look up from the golf ball you've been using to massage your plantar fascia because it's pissed at you from too many treadmill miles instead of running outside, but you can't run outside because of frostbite and falling to your death on black ice.

So anyway, I heard birds. 

And though I know the East Coast is setting up for another snow dump that might threaten Beloved's return to Kansas City, at least I got to tell him about this:

56 DEGREES

 

I think we might have to go outside and play, according to DJ Nibbles.

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Weekly Blueprint
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Happy Monday everyone, I hope you had a great weekend! Ours included the fun (ice skating! holding new babies! Olympics!), the mundane (OMG where did all this laundry come from?), and the somewhat painful (passport processing at the post office). I'm now enjoying the peace and quiet of my office this morning and hope you enjoy this roundup of events in the Weekly Blueprint:

February 10: Creative movement with Erica Sigal. (Boston)

February 10: Celebrating Black History Month with music. (Boston)

February 11: Baa, baa black sheep, have you any wool? (Lincoln)

February 12: Whoooooo are these owls? (Sharon)

February 13: Use simple engineering to craft one of a kind Valentines. (Acton)

February 13 + 14: For those dying to reenact that scene from Ghost (ahem). (Lincoln)

February 14: Meet Buddy Love the dog and hear her bark along to a story. (Acton)

February 14: A special Valentine’s Day storytime with a visit from Curious George. (Cambridge)

February 14: A day devoted to Valentine’s crafts. (Easton)

February 14: Preschool story hour with books, crafts and a nature walk. (Princeton)

Image credit: Etsy

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